The last coins

Free Hugs in Arboga was a succé! We were all gladly surprised over how welcome we felt and how happy people became :)

Jesper and I was just about to end our hug-campaign when two winos (as we understood) approached. We gave them a big hug and chatted a bit. The two men showed great interest and seemed very impressed about our journey and what we did. Suddenly they were digging in their pockets and wanted to offer us all they had, a few coins. Jesper answered that they really didn't have to give us anything but they insisted so we received their last coins, ungwillingly. Their gesture broke our hearts and Jesper nearly cried when we were leaving.

 

This episode made me think of a metaphor:

If I held a note of 500 SEK (about 50 €) and gave it to someone, he/she would probably take it. If I crumpled it and tore its sides, he/she would still very likely accept the money. Now then, if I spit on it, stamped on it and walked away.. I bet someone would pick up the money anyway.

But how do we handle a real person...?

We all have personal responsibility towards our surrounding and Everybody can make a difference. You don't necessarily have to hug everyone you see or give money to everyone you meet but you can always give them your attention. Choose one day and make an effort to see the ones you have in front of you. Look people in their eyes as you pass. It matters.

Elin